I think both my husband and I are putting a lot of thought into reconciliation.
There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone.We can be in love with each other and still hurt each other.But we can’t love each other and hurt each other.I am in love with you, no doubt, but I haven’t been loving you like I should. Meaning I wasn’t holding up my end. I wasn’t showing my love for you when I was being resentful of feeling unloved. All while we are hopelessly in love.On top of everything we need to learn how to love each other as much as we are in love with each other.Does that make sense?? One is a feeling the other is actions.
He is making amazing strides in the areas of personal growth. He’s found work and will be able to take care of himself without me. He is making friends outside us (even a girl). He’s recognized a lot areas he needs to work on and is sharing how he is doing it. I’m proud of him and happy for him!
And right now? All we need from each other is the time and space to heal individually.