There is a change I have tried over and over to make. Failed over and over to make. Want to make. Can’t seem to do it for more than a month or two at a time. Having been succumbing to it hard core for six months now.
Alcohol.
The thing is I have a lot of different issues because of my health stuff. I attribute minor symptoms to simple problems. Itchy skin? Allergies. Edema? Blood pressure and heart. Dark poop? I drink red wine. Dry mouth? I smoke pot. Stomach tenderness? I have been gaining a bit of weight so I figure the swollenness and tenderness was weight gain. Constant thirst? I get dehydrated from drinking so of course I am thirsty. Right?
My blood tests come back normal most of the time. So I haven’t put all the different things together. However, yesterday, I was told my last blood work showed some elevated something or other. My practitioner asked me some very detailed questions. Turns out all those little symptoms add up to a very big problem.
Liver disease.
They are ordering more tests. Blood work. A liver biopsy. Ultrasounds. Things that will confirm the suspicion and tell them how far along it is.
And, of course, I am supposed to stop drinking. But all I want to do when I get bad news is cover it up with wine.
I’m not sure how I am going to do this. I doubt I am even capable of quitting. The more I am forced to do something the more some internal part of me wants to reject it. Hell, I’m drinking wine as I write this. It’s 6am.
I know I can’t drink this away. I know I will need to make serious changes. Knowledge is not power in this situation. Knowledge is plaguing me and I am consciously making the wrong choice. Even if I do quit drinking today I might be so advanced it wouldn’t make a difference.
How do you deal with forced change? I’ve overcome other things before but always on my own terms. Quitting drinking because of a disease is in no way my own terms.
Today, after the wine wears off, I’m going to do more research about how to quit. I’m going to get in touch with the substance abuse counselor I was seeing the last time I quit for two months. I’m going to try to wait until next week when the tests are done before I go into full blown panic.
Forced change sucks.