For me? When depression decides to lift a bit I tend to get immediately manic. Today I feel better than I have in weeks but I’m also a bit overwhelmed by energy.
What started it all? Good news I discovered a few days ago. My mediocre efforts toward increasing my exercise, coupled with my commitment to eating more healthy and despite my continued struggle with alcohol have all paid off. I accomplished one of my major weight loss goals. I was at 220 lbs when I started and I want to be at 170 lbs. When I did my weekly weigh-in in my living room? I have broken the 200 lb threshold. I’m halfway to my goal.
And with that? I decided not to get wine that day. I spent the past three weeks pretty much at the bottom of a wine bottle so it wasn’t easy the first day. I was sick to the point I was nervous about it. Shakes and dry heaves. I could barely lift my head for the spinning. Today I woke up feeling much better. Today I am working on my fourth day sober.
I feel like a veil lifted a bit and I suddenly have more energy.
Then I spent my energy cleaning. Not just dusting and tidying but pulling out things from walls to scrub floors and reorganizing cupboards. My bathroom sparkles. I cleaned my stove and fridge. Every carpet is vacuumed. I have wanted to do this for a long time but couldn’t muster myself to do anything except sleep and drink.
I also danced the entire time. It has been so long since I have just danced for hours but I danced as I cleaned. Took breaks from cleaning just for dancing when my favourite songs came on and I still have energy left to spare at the moment so I started an art project I have been meaning to do.
I suppose I should be happy for the energy.
However along with the energy comes rapid thinking. Any time I sit down just to relax for a minute my mind is flooded with everything at once. The homework from my therapist I need to do, the calls I need to make, writing out my next month’s budget and my grocery list. I think about all the things I still want to clean. I end up getting up to do something because I can’t get my mind to quit and I need to focus on something. Even as I sit and write this? Mind still has other things whirling in it like what else I should write about.
I usually enjoy the mania for a couple days before it subsides. I wonder how long it will last. After the mania comes a brief time of relaxation that can lead to poor decisions like drinking too much or remaining stagnant on the couch. Those things usually lead into the next cycle of depression.
I’m determined to break the cycle. I want to feel in control. I just need to figure out how.
But today feels good. I have gotten a lot accomplished and I am sure I will sleep well tonight.